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Improving
motivation is at once one of the simplest and most complex
applications of hypnotherapy. On the simpler side are the direct
suggestions aimed at building the self-esteem necessary for an individual
to realize his or her potential. This can simply involve an
encouragement of the inner conviction that "you can do it!"
Fostering a positive mental outlook can by itself have impressive results.
In the hypnotic state these suggestions are extremely powerful, but they can also
be highly effective in books (both fictional and non-fictional), in movies and when spoken
by motivational speakers. There is a treasure trove of
inspirational material to draw upon. But sometimes direct suggestions designed to
build self-esteem and a positive mental attitude are not enough. Sometimes hidden or subconscious
mental blocks can create barriers to success. And sometimes the
enemy of motivation is nothing other than confusion and the failure to see new opportunity.
Confusion about what to do or where to go from here does not
necessarily mean that one is suffering from low self-esteem or
confidence. You can be highly motivated and yet be in a funk and at
a loss about what to do about it. This funk is a sort of common
depression that anyone can experience, and is the result of feeling
stuck and being unable to get by the obstacles and barriers that
stand in the way of what we want. When the barriers persist a sense
of futility and resignation to fate can set in. Motivation becomes
diminished as one frustration after another seems to extinguish the
last remnants of hope. Perhaps the most common variety of this
eternal story is that of rejected love. A man or woman becomes
convinced that he or she has finally found true love. All hopes and
dreams are focused, concentrated, and projected upon this one
person. A person's future life is inextricably conceived of in terms
of this other person and then suddenly it is over. A
bombshell explodes in the form of words that say "We've grown
apart" or "I've met somebody else" or simply "I
am no longer in love with you." Most people move on with their
lives and meet others and begin a new chapter. However, some are so
devastated and fixated by the past relationship that all motivation
to meet new people seems to be sapped. Obviously this example is
hugely generalized and it disregards any particular hurts or traumas
which might be involved. But in the generalization there is some
relevancy. Absorption in the particular matter at hand, whatever it
is, is the hypnotic-like blinder that can obfuscate, hide, and
entrap, and ultimately prevent the discoveries and answers that we
seek, hope and pray for. Hypnotherapy is a cure for the hypnosis or
hypnotic-like limitations of everyday life!
It might be said that this is far too simplistic, and of course it
is. The above comments completely ignore the power of emotional
attachment and that changing relationships is not like trading in
cars. True enough. My point, however, is this: regardless of the
cause of the myopic view of options and possibilities which can
result from failed relationships, it steals away the motivation
which is the energy and hope of future happiness. Much the same may
be said of those situations when someone loses his job. While some
individuals are resilient, others are hopeless and unmotivated. The
difference between the resilient and unmotivated individuals
concerns the ability to recognize opportunity. To understand how a
negative can sometimes turn into a positive. To perceive how
strengths in one area may emerge as strengths in completely
different and unexpected areas. The ability to clear away the
intellectual muddle--even when it is a consequence of emotional
turbulence--can bring answers which enable self-realization (and the
emotional turbulence may subside in the process).
Combining intellectual clarity with connectivity or "in
touchness" with the creative potential of the subconscious can
allow barriers and obstacles to fall. My sessions concerning
improved motivation may center around subliminal messages of how to
build greater self-esteem and confidence, or they may involve
philosophically oriented discussions of options and possibilities
linked with subliminal suggestions for creative problem solving. The
course is driven by my client. Generally, I find that when the
source of poor motivation is poor self-esteem the client recognizes
it and often characterizes the problem by expressly linking the two
together. When the issues are somewhat more complex and involve
intellectual obstacles in the form of confusion, obfuscation, or
blindness to new possibilities we may choose to explore the
philosophical issues
which may bear on the question of motivation. The intensity of life
sometimes convinces us that there are no solutions or that there is
no other way. In a very meaningful sense, we can truly become
hypnotized into believing that there is just no way out of the
sealed box that we perceive to be our lives, and so why continue
trying? And so we give up. Irony of ironies! It may take hypnosis to
snap us of out of the trance.
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Integral Hypnosis is conveniently located in Newton, MA near the Mass Pike and Route 128 and is within a 1/2 hour drive of the following Greater Boston, MetroWest, North Shore and South Shore communities:
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